Saying hard things when witnessing to the lost
Thursday, October 29th, 2009I have had some discussions lately about saying “hard things” to the lost when witnessing to them. There are some that find this very difficult to do, but don’t we have a responsibility to do it? How good is a physician who does not tell the truth to the patient, even when the news is bad? In fact, isn’t it more compassionate and right to tell them the bad news? For if they do not know the bad news and the cold hard facts, then how will they care or want to hear about the good news? Knowing about a cure does not concern those who do not think they have a problem. I know….. I see it all the time. Telling the lost that God loves them doesn’t mean anything to them. In fact, it always seems like a license for them to keep on sinning because God is loving and will forgive.
That is why I believe the facts such as judgment and hell need to be included in any gospel presentation. Jesus certainly was not shy when it came to this. He spoke of hell as the “fiery furnace”(Matt 13:42), “weeping and gnashing of teeth”(Luke 13:28), “outer darkness”(Matthew 25:30), “their worm that does not die”(Mark 9:48), “eternal punishment”(Matthew 25:46), and being”cut in pieces”(Matthew 24:51). For when a lost person says that they don’t believe in hell, and deny that they have a problem, the fact of Jesus believing in it can be shared with them. In fact, I think to be compassionate, we need to be very clear that hell is a real place according to Jesus, and is eternal. And that in comparison to eternity, our lives are described now as a “vapor that appears for a little while and disappears”(James 4:14).
Now, we can do this in a loving way. In fact, is it not a loving thing to do in warning the lost of the eternal consequences of sin? As the bible says, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble(James 4:6), we can be biblical in our presentation of the fact of hell. As it was with Jesus, and especially when confronting the religious people of the day, He was very harsh with the prideful types who thought their religious duties would please God enough to be found righteous in His sight. Jesus makes it clear that no one is good other than God(Mark 10:18), and even all of our righteous acts are like filthy rags before Him(Isa 64:6), and no one is righteous(Rom 3:10). But to those who are humble or repentant about their sins and their lost condition, we can be full of grace.
When I was in Denver a couple of weeks ago, the first person I talked to was a Jehovahs Witness. He denied the existence of hell and certainly was not concerned that he was in any eternal peril. I told him that Jesus certainly believed in hell and explained how Jesus said that if your eye caused you to sin, you should remove it, as it would be better to be in heaven with one eye than in hell with both. He was not concerned or impressed with anything I was saying, so I told him he knows the truth now and he will be held accountable when God judges him. That we all “are to live once, then are appointed a day of judgment”(Heb 9), and he will be held accountable now that he knows the truth. I also shared with him that even though he might have a zeal for God, that it is without knowledge, and not knowing the righteousness of God, he was making a righteousness for himself(Romans 10). He shook my hand and we parted ways. I think it was the most loving thing to say to him.